So Disheartening! Brenda and Benjamin Are Not My Children

So Disheartening! Brenda and Benjamin Are Not My Children

As I sat on the sofa to watch the three children play in the sitting room, I was convinced in my spirit that the last two (Brenda and Benjamin) were not mine. I know you people will think I don’t know what I am saying or I am insane, but wait until you hear my […]

I’m Entwined In A Relationship With My Boyfriend’s Father (3)

I’m Entwined In A Relationship With My Boyfriend’s Father (3)

This is the concluding part of the story of Vero who is in an entwined relationship with both father and son. On his return, Chris started working in his father’s company. In fact, he became a member of the board of trustees. He too started spoiling me with money and gifts. When I told my […]

I’m Entwined In A Relationship With My Boyfriend’s Father (2)

I’m Entwined In A Relationship With My Boyfriend’s Father (2)

This is the continuation of the story of Vero and the men in her life. A month later, he bought me a car, gives me N250,000 every week for my upkeep and we started spending most weekends together in exclusive hotels in and outside town. He tells his wife that he is going on ‘business […]

Help! Everybody Is Busy Planning My Life

Help! Everybody Is Busy Planning My Life

Dear Angela I am the only child and son of my parents. I presently run my father’s construction company as he will be retiring in the next six to eight months. I have actually been so busy that I have not had time for love even though I’m 30 years-old. I just found out that […]

Reason Why I Don’t Enjoy Sex with My Husband (2)

Reason Why I Don’t Enjoy Sex with My Husband (2)

When I got home, I told myself, “One rape in a life time is bad enough but to go through it thrice was unbearable. There and then, I vowed that I will kill any man who tries it again.” I never failed to constantly ask myself why life has been so unfair to me. I […]

Reason Why I Don’t Enjoy Sex with My Husband (1)

Reason Why I Don’t Enjoy Sex with My Husband (1)

A lot of young girls and women have been raped at one time or the other. But because of the shame, pain and stigma associated with it, the victims hardly talk about it. My name is Anabel, I still remember that fateful day in the village when I had to go and fetch firewood alone […]

Abomination! My Husband Deflowered And Impregnated Our Daughter Twice

Abomination! My Husband Deflowered And Impregnated Our Daughter Twice

The day I found out that Eno, my first daughter, was pregnant, I was so devastated. She was just 16 years old and was in Senior Secondary 1 (SS1). I cried and asked myself how I was going to face the shame and humility this would bring. That was in mid-2012. Before this incidence, my […]

When The Love Doctor Needs Advice

When The Love Doctor Needs Advice

Gring, gring, “Hello, this is your home girl Suzzy, your love doctor. How may I help you this evening?” I asked. “Is this Suzzy P the love doctor? Please, I need your advice on … my boyfriend. He is a good kisser but …, I love my girlfriend but …, my husband is super in […]

Help! I Feel Like Urinating During Sex

Help! I Feel Like Urinating During Sex

Dear Angela, Sometimes I feel like I want to urinate during sex even after I urinate just before we get intimate. I get so scared that I will wet the bed that I lose my arousal. Is something wrong with me? I don’t want to lose my man. What should I do? Worried Woman   […]

My Abandoned Daughter Has A Child For My Husband (Part 1)

My Abandoned Daughter Has A Child For My Husband (Part 1)

Years ago, precisely when I was 20-years-old, I was impregnated by my boyfriend, Soji, in Abeokuta. When I told him about the pregnancy, he told me he was an ordinary mechanic and that I should get rid of the pregnancy but I vehemently refused. Even though I hawked cooked groundnut for my mother, I was […]