So Disheartening! Brenda and Benjamin Are Not My Children

As I sat on the sofa to watch the three children play in the sitting room, I was convinced in my spirit that the last two (Brenda and Benjamin) were not mine. I know you people will think I don’t know what I am saying or I am insane, but wait until you hear my story Emmauella was the love of my life. She has everything a man desires in a wife. After two years of dating, I decided to marry her coupled with the fact that my family members…

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I’m Entwined In A Relationship With My Boyfriend’s Father (3)

This is the concluding part of the story of Vero who is in an entwined relationship with both father and son. On his return, Chris started working in his father’s company. In fact, he became a member of the board of trustees. He too started spoiling me with money and gifts. When I told my mother about Chris, she quietly said, “I warned you not to date Chief but you thought I was old school. Vero, you alone will face the consequences of whatever you are doing. I have washed…

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I’m Entwined In A Relationship With My Boyfriend’s Father (2)

This is the continuation of the story of Vero and the men in her life. A month later, he bought me a car, gives me N250,000 every week for my upkeep and we started spending most weekends together in exclusive hotels in and outside town. He tells his wife that he is going on ‘business trips just to be with me. I knew I had ‘stolen’ the weekends he is supposed to spend with his wife, Aunty Emilia, but there was nothing I could do because I was now enjoying…

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Help! Everybody Is Busy Planning My Life

Dear Angela I am the only child and son of my parents. I presently run my father’s construction company as he will be retiring in the next six to eight months. I have actually been so busy that I have not had time for love even though I’m 30 years-old. I just found out that everyone around me is busy planning my life – my marriage to be precise. While my parents are trying to match-make me with their friend’s daughter, my cousin is also trying to hook with up…

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Reason Why I Don’t Enjoy Sex with My Husband (2)

When I got home, I told myself, “One rape in a life time is bad enough but to go through it thrice was unbearable. There and then, I vowed that I will kill any man who tries it again.” I never failed to constantly ask myself why life has been so unfair to me. I decided to put it behind me and make something out of my life. Today I am happily married to Raphael but I am scared of sex and I hardly enjoy it even if I want…

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Reason Why I Don’t Enjoy Sex with My Husband (1)

A lot of young girls and women have been raped at one time or the other. But because of the shame, pain and stigma associated with it, the victims hardly talk about it. My name is Anabel, I still remember that fateful day in the village when I had to go and fetch firewood alone because my best friend Mercy took ill. I was just 13 years-old then. On my way back from fetching the firewood, I was waylaid and raped by one of the notorious boys, Nnamdi, who had…

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Abomination! My Husband Deflowered And Impregnated Our Daughter Twice

The day I found out that Eno, my first daughter, was pregnant, I was so devastated. She was just 16 years old and was in Senior Secondary 1 (SS1). I cried and asked myself how I was going to face the shame and humility this would bring. That was in mid-2012. Before this incidence, my family was a happy one. My husband Edet was an assistant manager in a private company while I sell food stuff at the central market in Calabar. We are blessed with three beautiful daughters –…

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When The Love Doctor Needs Advice

Gring, gring, “Hello, this is your home girl Suzzy, your love doctor. How may I help you this evening?” I asked. “Is this Suzzy P the love doctor? Please, I need your advice on … my boyfriend. He is a good kisser but …, I love my girlfriend but …, my husband is super in bed but …, my wife is beautiful and well-mannered but … and I am in love with a married woman/man but … and so on. Please I need your honest advice.” This is all I…

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Help! I Feel Like Urinating During Sex

Dear Angela, Sometimes I feel like I want to urinate during sex even after I urinate just before we get intimate. I get so scared that I will wet the bed that I lose my arousal. Is something wrong with me? I don’t want to lose my man. What should I do? Worried Woman   Dear Worried Woman There are different possible causes. However, the question is, have you always felt this way or is it just with this particular man? Anyway, several sexual positions stir up internal sensations that…

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My Abandoned Daughter Has A Child For My Husband (Part 1)

Years ago, precisely when I was 20-years-old, I was impregnated by my boyfriend, Soji, in Abeokuta. When I told him about the pregnancy, he told me he was an ordinary mechanic and that I should get rid of the pregnancy but I vehemently refused. Even though I hawked cooked groundnut for my mother, I was determined to keep the pregnancy and cater for my unborn child. When my mother discovered I was pregnant, she was furious because she was just a petty trader who sell under sun and rain to…

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